Originally Posted by danny_boy

Yes, I have thought about counselling.

How do I rationalize this problem....well, 90% of men watch porn, and fantasize. Now, many have great sex lives...fully satisfied. Many watch porn with their SO's. However, many men still fantasize about other women, it is human nature.

Men go to strip clubs..even at the damn beach...seeing major eye candy always makes the head turn, and the fantasies start pouring out.

I have spoken to some close older friends about it...who are happily married. They tell me stories.." I once dated this girl, and she was obsessed with anal...she loved it!." They admitted they had great experiences, and fantasize all the time, but they have moved on from that.

How is my situation theoretically different. It is human nature to fantasize...to watch porn...etc...true my situation is complicated, because they were with prostitutes..but is it really that abnormal...

I once heard on the sunday nite sex show, a girl complaining how her bf always looked at other women, and masturbated to porn a lot. Sue Johanssen explained that men will always do that..it is natural. Call it a double standard, but many women are not like that.

This is how I have been rationalizing this to myself.