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Originally Posted by danny_boy
Not at all...
I am getting married because I love this person more then anything in the world. and I could never imagine my life without her.
we have been dating for 4 years, andthe idea of waking up next to her everyday puts a smile on my face.
No, I am not ready to be monogamous, but I do not have a choice now. Like I said earlier, the choice is obvious her...I just need a way to stop wanting my past, and enjoy the present.
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You absolutely do have a choice. If you are not ready to be monogamous, don't get married. I'm not saying you should leave her all together, but don't make a lifelong committment of monogamy if you aren't ready. Have you thought about counseling? It is obvious you cannot put this behind you by yourself so perhaps professional help is the way to go.