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doncalypso · 03-13-2005, 06:14 AM

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Originally Posted by danny_boy

Hey,

Before I met my girlfriend I did some things I regret. I paid for sex, and I am not happy about that. I did it about 15 times, all with different women. I was safe, so that is not my concern.

The sex with my girlfriend is amazing. It's kinky, we roleplay, and its amazing. But, every so often, all I can think of is calling that mysterious woman, and going over and having sex with this stranger. I have talked to my girlfriend about this, and we do not know what to do. She knows of my past, and it does not bother her.

I, nor she is willing to add someone else into our relationship (3some, etc) So, now from time to time I kind of miss my earlier escapades. Now, I know its a tradeoff, instant gratification from sex, or a lifetime with my soultate, and its a no brainer...love conquers all...but wanting the things I had in my past is mentally killing me.

Any suggestions ?

Been there, done that... I know what you mean and how you feel.

I made the mistake of telling my girlfriend about my dark past when we started dating... worst thing I could've done in my life. The woman almost dumped me on the spot for stuff that had happened befoer I went to college and before she ever knew I even existed.
Consider yourself lucky that you girlfriend isn't threatened by your past... I think some things about one's past are better left unsaid because some people don't know how to handle the truth.