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Old 03-04-2005, 10:34 AM   #1 (permalink)
tres
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Need a womans opinion

Ok. My fiance is on the Patch- Since she has been on the patch, she hasent been interested in sex at all. Every Few days or so, she decides that she wants to have sex with me because she knows that I want it. However, I don't like the fact that she does that. I feel like I'm almost taking advantage of her. Its almost like she might at well be faking it, which I definetly don't want. During these sessions, I can tell she's not into it, and it makes me really uncomfortable. I would almost rather not even have sex? I know that it sounds weird comming from a guy, but its the truth. I love her to death, and don't want her to do anything that she doesent want to. I've told her how I feel and basically it comes down to the fact that sex would only be during or right after her period, that being when she feels into it. While I would like sex more often, I don't want it to be a "chore" for her. I want her to want it. Is that asking too much? She says that she loves me and wants me to be happy so she has sex, even though she may not really want it. How do you feel about that? Would you do it for your men? Guys who are in relationships- would you feel awkward about your girl doing that for you??

Lemme finish by saying.. I'm content with sex whenever she's into it. but like most guys and from what I've read many women on this board- I'd like to have it as much as possible.
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