Sage

i say she's a nutcase, perhaps not on a concious level, but she's been with you a month. i know some people move faster in relationships than others, but it seems to me that she's playing you like a harmonica. take a deep breath, let her do her thing, then go find a woman that isn't emotionally disturbed and who will be able to love you on a equal level. it seems to me she's just looking for a way to get out of a reltationship she's gotten in to too much, and is using the "i love you too much" card to bow out semi gracefully so she can move with her ex. cut your losses, get over it, be better for it. good luck with the next gal!

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