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Yah, Sexymama... I know. He originally moved in with his sister to help her out because she has major health issues and 10 year old son to raise alone. He's a really good guy. She is sick because of emotional problems, primarily. I don't think he'll stay there indefinetly because she won't seek therapy, which would help immensely. He said he's moving by next fall and "she'll just have to deal with it" and asked me to move with him to Idaho!!! Only the least populated state in the union! I kinda brushed the discussion off, but told him that I needed to be around people in order to have a decent practice (I'm in complimentary health care). I'm willing to move out of CT (hells, yes!) but not to "no man's land". His request was also delivered in an off-hand humorous way, so I don't think this discussion of moving together is a real issue right now. He was just fishin'.
It's really gonna take some time to get to know each other a this rate and I'm so anxious to know him better. I do love him, but that is not a guarantee that it will last, nor do I need validation in order to have these feelings. I think there's a big diiference from being in love and really loving someone. I'm in love. (I think...at least I am some of the time) love's so funny isn't it?
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Believe nothing, even if I tell it to you, unless it meets with your own good common sense and experience. - Siddhartha Gautama (The Buddha)
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