Hey, if your woman is good to you, its no wonder you're cummming in 20 seconds. It takes time to build the sexual-savior relationship, trust me on that, despite what these assholes have to say. ( OK, not all are assholes
) I';ve been dating my girlfriend of 9 months and I can still cum in 20 seconds if I want to. I can also go for 2 hours if I find the right situation.
The bottom line is, don't feel bad about it. Be open about it. I've two-pump-chumped my woman on several occassions, but as long as you're willing to admit you did it, and promise to make it up, and ACTUALLY DO IT, you're A-OK. If you
've been sleeping with the same person for awhile, and you find you CAN'T actually do it, thats a whole different story.