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Originally Posted by fallenangel
I love my best friend. Not only do I love him, but I'm IN love with him as well.
My best friend is also my ex.
My question/topic for everyone else... Do you believe in second chances, or are they a waste of everyone's time involved?
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Second chances are not nessasarily a bad thing. That being said.............................Would giving him a second chance be repeating a bad cycle that you have been stuck in??
Or would it be benefical and positive now that you (or both of you?) are in a place where you could make it work and bring happiness for both of you??
People come to a cross roads when they have to decide to give another person a second chance. You know deep down if it will be a positive thing or not, if it's not, then move on immediately and spare yourself the pain. . . But IF you feel it will be positive for your life, then give him that second chance . . . cautiously gaurd your heart/emotions, take things slow, and be really honest. Second chances Have to start with total honesty, through honesty is the only way they can succeed, totally rebuild a new foundation for yourselves, leave the past in the past and truly start fresh, a new beginning . . . i know from experience and we've been married for 3 years now.
Good luck And no matter what, Be True to Yourself . . . . . Life is a crazy thing sometimes, i wish it weren't so.
