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Yo, let me be the Devil's advocate here for a second because if I were you, I would see exactly how serious she is about this boyfriend. Granted, I'm probably a little more aggressive than the average guy, but I'll push up on another dude's girl in a heartbeat if I like her. Well, as long as I'm not friends with the guy, and even then it's hard for me to restrain myself.
Don't be an asshole or anything, if she isn't feeling you then definetly chill out and let her be. But hell, I would definitely step up and see where her head's at. The worst thing she can say is no, I've heard it before. But honestly, I would rather hear no and move on then to always wonder 'what if,' that's the worst to me.
Seriously, I've had success in the past with this type of behavior. Maybe she's feeling your or is tired of her boyfriend and wants something new. You will never now if you don't make a move man. I think you should step up, just tread a little lightly at first and see what kind of feedback she gives you.
I guess another question you may need to ask yourself is what the chances that her boyfriend can/would whip your ass are. I always forget about that one because...well, it hardly ever applies to be honest.
Good luck and 'keep it pimpin', pimpin'!'
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Pride is the recognition of the fact that you are your own highest value and, like all of man’s values, it has to be earned.
It is not advisable, James, to venture unsolicited opinions. You should spare yourself the embarrassing discovery of their exact value to your listener.
Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged
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