Don't push it with people that are friends. You're old enough now that chances are if they were interested they wouldn't be playing friend hoping for you to spring something on them, especially if these are long friendships we're talking about here. Talking about problems and other guys (no matter what the context) sounds like you're just one of the girls. My advice is to forget about getting with these girls and start asking their advice on hooking up with their other friends. If they really like you, they'll go out of their way to talk you up to their girlfriends.
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