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my wife sometimes seems to nag me, but it is usually because i have (or havent) done something, and it pissing her off. usually there is a root cause, and that is what i always try to take it back to to sort it out.
i think it has a lot to do with the different ways women and men deal with things - women are better generally at vocalising whats on their minds perhaps? i personally am a "brooder" - i let anger simmer for days in my head - but i much prefer the way my wife is upfront about things. i left my clothes on the floor, she tells me she is pissed about it, end of story. if it was me, i would get angry about it, not say anything for 4 days, finally blow up and say a load of things i didnt mean because i was so angry, and then spend another week making up. so its all equal i guess, ultimately, just a part of the rich tapestry of an intimate relationship!
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George Bernard Shaw
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