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I find it exceptionally amusing that so many men project a feeling of ownership over their signifigant others.
To turn the tables, if you got a job being a nude model (this is not a question of if you would!), would you feel that you had the right to chose if you modeled, or if your SO stated they would not let you do this would you feel that they had the right to tell you not to do this?
I am guilty of this at times, but try at all times to look impartitialy at what I am doing to see the falacy of my actions.
You want her to be sexy, but only for you. Many here seem to feel that the body of their SO is only for their eyes or enjoyment.
As for the the intent of this thread, question why you feel so strongly about this issue. Are you projecting feeling of ownership on your loved one?
Perhaps it is best to remember that a relationship is made of two indiviguals who choose to remain together. You have no obligation to stay with her, nor does she have an obligation to you. You have love. You have the right to express your feelings on such a matter as this. She has the right to make a choice of her own without feeling undue pressure from you or fear that you would terminate your relationship with her if she chooses to disagree with your opposition.
A relationship is a commitment of two people to each other, and one anothers interests, but it never means that one partner makes descions for another.
In this case she is not cheating on you, nor breaking any other barrier you two had mutual agreement about.
Instead you are projecting your personal fears about the stability of your relationship and your issues of human sexuality and the body onto her.
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