I'm married. I've also been tempted into masturbating online (in Yahoo Messenger) with other people (male and female). It doesn't happen very often, but it has occurred. I am starting to wonder if this constitutes having an affair. What is the thought out there? I always viewed it as mutual/interactive masturbation.
Please note that I have not developed any attachments in the chat rooms, no long lasting relationships. But is this cheating?