Hey, don't get drunk. Problems go away forever when you deal with them. They only go away for a little while when you get drunk. When you sober up, you're back at square one probably with less money, possibly fewer friends and maybe an std
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First off, though it sucks, you need to visualize yourself without this person. Then you need to visualize yourself being happy without this person. It will be difficult or maybe impossible at first. Give it time. Take a break from romance. Sleep around, if you can do it responsibly. Remember that you survived x years without this person and that you
can survive indefinitely without her. Figure out how you can be single and happy, because you will never be able to hold down your side of a healthy relationship if you aren't comfortable with the idea of being alone(ironic, huh?). It is less than ideal to put your capacity for happiness in the hands of another person. Love should be voluntary. Loving someone because you need the happiness that they provide is different than loving someone because they make you happy.