Congrats on the marriage, and congrats on the kid.
Alot of the kids born these days seems to be unplanned. So your not alone on that by any means. Don't worry about the money either, it'll just get you all stressed and make you go crazy. I know cause I have been there. Just save up what you can before the baby is born. Also, remember that you have parents, grandparents etc. Clothing, toys, furniture, diapers, all of that fun stuff seems to magically arrive at your doorstep with a gift card on it.
I was sitting in your shoes not too long ago, and everything seems to be working out fine for me, a person who had no money saved away, no university degree, and so far in debt it's not even funny. I have learned that things will always work out, and there is always friends and family to turn to when you need help.
Be Strong, Be Brave. When the kid comes, you'll know it will all be okay.
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