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Ok so right now I am stuck in a situation with my ex. We had a pretty rocky relationship from the get go. She didn't treat me that well to begin with but we had developed a strong friendship away from our intimate relationship. We broke up just over a month ago and have dicussed getting back together multiple times. Everything seemed pretty good for me last thursday when we hooked up again and really sat down to work things out. She stayed at my house for over two nights and we were just happy being with each other. WE didnt want to rush into things so fast this time. Yesterday is when the news from a friend hit me like a tonne of bricks.

My friend is a very reliable person who tries his best to stay neutral in most situations, and avoid the crossfire. We have known each other for over two years, and he has no reason to lie to me. We just watch each other's backs. He is also best friends with my ex, so I get a lot of inside info.

He told me that after he found out what was going on from my ex, she said that she was just using me untill shes bored and has no intentions of getting back together.

My ex is such a loveable person though and I consider her such a close friend. We have a lot of good times together outside of our relationship and I'd like to keep it that way. The problem is I never let anyone lie to me about serious things, backstab me, or use me in anyway. It just usually results with me saying good-bye and forgetting about them. I don't know what to do.

I am just so confused about what to do at this point. I can stay with her and be a tool, and not care about and get some damn nice action. I could tell her straight up everything with all the other shit she's put me through. I could just exempt her from my life. This would be hard though since my ex, my friend and I all work together. I could go out with another girl thats interested and let her know that I dont want anything from her anymore and never will. I could tell her I want a straight honest answer from you about us, and untill I get that I don't want anything to do with you.

The last problem is if I confront her with her using me, she will know that Doug told me; thus ending their friendship at my hand. Even though both of us are pretty fed up.

Any advice or personal experiences would help. Thankyou TFP

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