Originally Posted by Alyssa

Give it more time, don't go back cuz you will go back you your old ways of being with someone who doesn't know what they want or if they want to be with you etc.

I went out with someone for seven years and we broke up 2 1/2 years ago on somewhat good terms...one of those "lets take some time off and get back together in a month" bullshit break-up lines...that I fell for. We never got back together, infact I have not seen him at all since we broke up. I thought I would never want to be with anyone after him...in fact the thought of being with someone else made me feel ill. But, I gave it time and now I am with someone else who treats me a lot better than he ever did. And I am glad for the change.

I am still not completely over the him, I still miss him and think of him often...but you have to realize that sometimes the person who you thought you were in love with was actually not 'the one' And that silly qote that I'm sure you have heard lately,"there's plenty of other fish in the sea" really is true.


So! Give it time...don't go back, go foreward...don't rebound with some random person, (I did that twice and it sucks) and you will eventually find your way out of this mess.