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Old 10-10-2004, 12:51 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Possible scenarios in my mind

1. mentioning the boyfriend as a safety net for her in case things fall through between you and her. If she figures she's not as attracted to you as she first thought during a date she could just say something along the lines of "It's great to just go out with a friend and have fun instead of doing ________ (relationship activity) with my boyfriend.

2. She's trying to up her value in your eyes (I may be flirting with you, *she WAS flirting right?* but I have a boyfriend at home that wants me, can't you see i'm attractive?) That is, she wants you to know that she is popular/hot etc. so you become more interested in her.

3. You didn't convey your interest in her and she threw you into the friend zone where she just wants to talk about random things with you. Worst option but it might be possible. Also, she might be socially clueless herself and not realize you two are flirting. Which is doubtful as well.

anyways I say ask her to coffee or go for a walk after class and turn that into a date. Girls like spontaneous stuff, they all want that story where "girl bumps into guy at _______ (no, bar/pub doesn't go there), unexpected relationship blossoms".
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