I think what Shamelesscondor is asking is, people who aren't "Gay" or "Lesbian" however have same sex attraction, are sometimes referred to as "Strugglers".
http://www.leaderu.com/orgs/narth/selfreinvention.html has some insight.
Essentially this creates 2 groups of homosexuals, the GLBT and the Strugglers.
At least, that's what little understanding I have of the situation. Perhaps someone more educated on the situation can shed a little more light.
Personally... I could care less if someone is bi, gay, struggling, straight
As long as its consenting adult humans, and I don't have to look at it, have at it. It's your gig.