I think every guy needs to "sow his oats" and every girl needs to "gather her roots" for awhile before committing to a lifelong realtionship. If you both do it, no harm done if you both discover you're right for each other.
However, it sounds like she wants to gather her roots and keep an eye on you at the same time. You deserve someone who will respect you more than she does.
Do that cross country move. Live a life without her. Who knows - maybe in a year or two she'll want to reconnect (Don't live your life expecting that, though) If you're available at the time - fine. But if you're in a relationship - whatever you do - don't break it off for Ms. Maybesomeday.
I mean - what's the alternative?
Are you really contemplating moving into a house with her where you can hear her banging other guys every night? Who would put themselves through that shit?
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