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waltert · 09-10-2004, 05:12 PM

it took me about 1 year total to get onto the friend ladder, then from there onto the relationship tower. after about 9 months i was ready to leap off of the friend ladder into oblivion, I worked out on a regular basis, but I always wore modest clothing, and never talked about what my body looked like or how big my muscles were (I think its assenine, and usually never flex my muscles for girls that ask me to). she graduated 1st in her class in a class of about 500, so she might qualify as nerdy to some, I never really figured she would be interested in knowing how my body looked.

we were talking one day, and I said that I had a "relatively flat stomach" sounds like a pretty reasonable claim since it was really more like a "6 pack". I told her I'd take a picture of my stomach and send it to her. apparently she liked it, because she began showing it to all of her friends, and even tried to argue with me that it wasnt me (though it obviously was). after that, and only after that did she begin to remove me from the friend ladder (took about 3 months). I put alot of care and patience into developing a relationship with her, and once I got off of the friend ladder, it has been nothing but worth it

EDIT: and I also had to let her start dressing me in express men's clothing that was tight around my body. lol, women are funny, but if you really put enough genuine effort onto it you can succeed. I also had a few several supportive friends that I talked to when I was ready to give up on trying to get her, they always encouraged me to stick with it.

09-10-2004, 05:12 PM	#30 (permalink)
waltert Insane	it took me about 1 year total to get onto the friend ladder, then from there onto the relationship tower. after about 9 months i was ready to leap off of the friend ladder into oblivion, I worked out on a regular basis, but I always wore modest clothing, and never talked about what my body looked like or how big my muscles were (I think its assenine, and usually never flex my muscles for girls that ask me to). she graduated 1st in her class in a class of about 500, so she might qualify as nerdy to some, I never really figured she would be interested in knowing how my body looked. we were talking one day, and I said that I had a "relatively flat stomach" sounds like a pretty reasonable claim since it was really more like a "6 pack". I told her I'd take a picture of my stomach and send it to her. apparently she liked it, because she began showing it to all of her friends, and even tried to argue with me that it wasnt me (though it obviously was). after that, and only after that did she begin to remove me from the friend ladder (took about 3 months). I put alot of care and patience into developing a relationship with her, and once I got off of the friend ladder, it has been nothing but worth it EDIT: and I also had to let her start dressing me in express men's clothing that was tight around my body. lol, women are funny, but if you really put enough genuine effort onto it you can succeed. I also had a few several supportive friends that I talked to when I was ready to give up on trying to get her, they always encouraged me to stick with it. Last edited by waltert; 09-10-2004 at 05:18 PM..