My rule is that if i don't trust the girl 100% we both get tested before we do anything; I'm clean and want to keep it that way. That being said I didn't have my current g/f get tested because she said she'd only been with one other guy and they were both virgins and I trusted her on that. (Note: I wouldn't extend that same trust to someone I was just hooking up with as opposed to having gone out for several months). There's just too much nasty shit out there and as much as I love sex it isn't worth the risk, and if the girl can't understand my insistence that she get checked, tough, I'll find someone else.
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