I disagree with everyone thus far. I don't think you have self esteem issues at all. If you have a gut feeling that something is going on, more often than not, your gut is right. Now, women are always going to have guys ogle them, so you have to get over that fact right away. Be glad that you have a beautiful woman on the inside and out. If you think she is going to leave you, there has to be more behind it than just other guys looking at her. Has she been doing her own thing and being inconsistent lately? Has she been doing things without you, things she hasn't normally done before? Is she frequenting other bars, going "out with the girls", or setting agendas that she normally doesn't? Thing is, it is not always a self esteem issue that causes one to think these things.
I don't have self esteem issues. I have dated very hot women strictly for their looks and when the gut started telling me that they were doing other things I wasn't aware of, I was 100% right every time. I have wisened up since then and go for personality....and looks.....
I don't think your reasoning is wrong, but I do think you need to address this head on and find out what is really going on. Fiil us in. Give us more details as to why you think this.
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