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Originally Posted by thebellman
How do I learn to be able to be comfortable that she's not going anywhere?
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Well, first you have to figure out why you think that... do you think you are unlovable? Or are there other reasons? (I speak from experience: a childhood with an alcoholic father and a depressed mother have left me with a residue of chronic depression.)
Probably the best thing to do would be to find a professional therapist and work out why you feel that way. At least in my experience, these kind of feelings don't just go away on their own.