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maleficent · 09-08-2004, 02:52 PM

Consider a reason for her not wanting to tell you...

She's met a guy that she's kinda sweet on. Only she's in the middle of something. Sounds like she's being honest that it's not contagious, so I'd rule out an STD (and besides we're giving her the benefit of the doubt) And that she's almost done with whatever it is.

Maybe this has been going on for a while, and she's met other guys who she was honest with before and maybe they ran screaming for the hills or snuck out,a nd she's tired of that. So... she's withholding info for now.

Don't pry, when she's ready to tell you, she will. The beginning of a relationship is not a reason why you have to tell the other person everything.

Relax and have some fun with her.

09-08-2004, 02:52 PM	#18 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	Consider a reason for her not wanting to tell you... She's met a guy that she's kinda sweet on. Only she's in the middle of something. Sounds like she's being honest that it's not contagious, so I'd rule out an STD (and besides we're giving her the benefit of the doubt) And that she's almost done with whatever it is. Maybe this has been going on for a while, and she's met other guys who she was honest with before and maybe they ran screaming for the hills or snuck out,a nd she's tired of that. So... she's withholding info for now. Don't pry, when she's ready to tell you, she will. The beginning of a relationship is not a reason why you have to tell the other person everything. Relax and have some fun with her. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.