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You can have a relationship as friends, or you can have one as lovers. It seems to me she's not very interested in the second kind.
She's not falling in love with you. It's possible to figure something like that out pretty quickly. Love is not usually the kinda feeling where you can "grow" into, especially between strangers. The prospect of a relationship based on sex and "being friends" only is not attractive enough for her without the added excitement and thrills of love. She'd like to be friends, but doesn't like to be as involved as it would require for you two to be if you'd have a "real" relationship.
Maybe while she was away, she found out she didn't really feel that much about you. When she got back, she decided to give it a try again, and, having tried, is coming to the realization that it's just not happening. Sure you can have fun together, and talk about stuff you both like, have sex, or whatever, but that's about it, as far as she's concerned.
In my opinion, it's possible to figure these things out in a few days/dates....
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