Ratso

Okay, this is a sequel to a prior thread I started about my girlfriend and her sexual insensitives, but a new one is required at this point.

The girl feels "good" during regular intercourse, but not nearly enough to bring orgasm. Her G-spot might as well be comprised of the skin on her hand - totally ineffective.

Direct clitoral stimulation feels "dull" to her. When she masturbates, she rubs the area just above the clitoris, apparently indirectly stimulating it. I can do this with my hand, with some success - but not as well as she does even after much practice - and even then the orgasm that it brings to her is mild at best, whether it's her or me doing it.

Oral doesn't do much better than the above.

I've used desensitizing condoms to lengthen sex, but that hasn't helped at all. It's not the length that's an issue - it's the fact that so far I've found no spot that really drives her wild. I used to be able to just rub the G-Spot or the clit on a girl and have her quivering by the end of a few minutes. This girl is ENTIRELY different. It's upsetting because she's very good at pleasuring me, but we can't seem to make anything work for her.

Any help is very, very appreciated.. one thing we are tossing around is the idea that it may be psychological. She's a very anxiety-stricken girl, and yet when we make love, she's quite calm and comfortable. Such a mystery.

Bonus funny story for reading this far: After using one of those desensitizing condoms, my girlfriend proceeded to finish me off by giving me head. Unfortunately for her, we'd forgotten that the desensitizing agent was still working. Before long, her tongue became numb, and then the rest of her mouth followed. Hilarity ensued. Larry David'd.