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Originally posted by Amano
... although she'll usually not tell me about it until after the blood started flowing, according to her, in order to save me from the scare.
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To me, that's a bigger red flag right there than the whole abortion thing. What's
that about? Does she not trust you? Is she unwilling to be vulnerable enough with you to ask for your support? There's something going on there, and it's not about saving you from the scare. This girl's a lone wolf.
Re the abortion thing: you're doubling up on birth control methods already. The failure rate isn't an aggregate figure--you're not MORE likely to have a failure with MORE sex. It's 99.9% effective (or whatever)
per instance of intercourse. What you're talking about is the gambler's fallacy.