You guys are so great. I really appreciate all of your responses.
Harshaw-- I frequently massage her clit while we are fucking and she enjoys it a lot but she has rarely if ever orgasmed that way. As far as I know, she has only had orgasms by two methods. One, I lick her pussy until she cums. This she loves, and when I do it (surprisingly) she often asks me to insert a finger into her vagina. I have searched and searched for her G-spot, as has she. I can feel an elongated spongy area just behind her clit on her front vaginal wall, but massaging it gets no reaction. As long as I am licking her clit, her pussy is very tight (even on just one finger) and it obviously pulses when I lick her clit. Secondly, I penetrate her missionary style and she masturbates to orgasm. It is important to her that I don't move very much while this is happening because it causes her to "lose her concentration." Occasionally I end up feeling that I am in the way of her masturbation session. Still, I take what I can get.
When we get down to fucking, usually after she has cum from one of the two methods described above, her pussy does not seem tight at all. Her clit is too sensitive to get anywhere near it. She does what she can to get me to cum, but I can always sense that she is only doing it for me. She's not really excited by it.
She can only cum once, and her orgasm is always very short. From her outward appearance, it seems to quickly "sneak up on her," hit softly, and just as quickly disapear-- five seconds max. She then pushes me away because she becomes super sensitive.
aphroditeskiss1--
I'm going to ask her to concentrate on what she feels during penetration.
Bentley Little-- I'll also ask her to begin "pretending" that she is enjoying it. Who knows?
onodrim-- thanks for your answers. You are "sweet and sexy!"
doncalypso-- have you ever tried the product? Has anyone here?
ShaniFaye-- your story gives me hope. But tell us more: how did you figure yourself out after 32 years?
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