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I was in a similar situation (still kind of am) but in the reverse. One of my buddies is getting married to this woman we called the 'ice queen.' She never talked to us (in the three years I have known him I have said maybe a paragraph of words to her) and though I didn't observe it directly my other roomates (who were roomates longer with him than I) related stories of her just belittling him and being vocally abusive too. I am still undecided but I am not going to the wedding. None of us are, knowing me I wouldn't say anything but when that time came (...speak now or forever hold your piece) I would cough loudly or something similar. I just hope he doesn't end up stuck in something bad just because they're married.
Don't really have advice, but believe me you're not alone.
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--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
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BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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