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Sargeman · 08-08-2004, 09:26 AM

I'll try to keep it short.

This has nothing to do with sex but figured I'd get more looks here than anywhere else on this MB.

I'm married and have three kids. For the past year my wife and I don't really communicate like we used to and she just doesn't like going out with friends or stuff like that.

Anyway, where I work at, I deal with many people. One is a girl in her mic 20's that is single and extremely good looking. But I mostly talk to her on the phone. A couple of weeks ago I stopped by her office when I was out in the field. She lives about 20 miles away in another small town. I'd seen her before about two yrs ago but didn't think anything of it.

Well we were talking and laughing and what not. Now I was there on official work business. As I was leaving I jokingly asked her where she was going to take me to lunch and she replied by asking me where I was going to take her. Then told me she went to lunch at 11:30. I laughed it off and went about my business. I went back to my office to pick up some stuff I'd forgotten and some paper work for her. Sure I could of faxed it but I'm funny like that.

When I got to her office we did a little small talk. As I was leaving she told me that the next time I was in the area that she went to lunch at 11:30 and that we needed to do lunch together.

Now, I'm not looking for sex or some other type of relationship. But I enjoy the company of ALL females and she is just so easy to talk to and we make each other laugh. Is it wrong to take her to lunch under the assumption that it is only as friends or even "coworkers". I go to lunch with women all the time and don't think of it as anything other than eating luch with friends. I am a little attracted to her but in a she makes me feel good and I would love for her to be a good friend type of way. Honestly, I'm not looking for anything else.

Thoughts, ideas and responses......

08-08-2004, 09:26 AM	#1 (permalink)
Sargeman Insane Location: Texas	Need advice or someone to knock some sense into me. I'll try to keep it short. This has nothing to do with sex but figured I'd get more looks here than anywhere else on this MB. I'm married and have three kids. For the past year my wife and I don't really communicate like we used to and she just doesn't like going out with friends or stuff like that. Anyway, where I work at, I deal with many people. One is a girl in her mic 20's that is single and extremely good looking. But I mostly talk to her on the phone. A couple of weeks ago I stopped by her office when I was out in the field. She lives about 20 miles away in another small town. I'd seen her before about two yrs ago but didn't think anything of it. Well we were talking and laughing and what not. Now I was there on official work business. As I was leaving I jokingly asked her where she was going to take me to lunch and she replied by asking me where I was going to take her. Then told me she went to lunch at 11:30. I laughed it off and went about my business. I went back to my office to pick up some stuff I'd forgotten and some paper work for her. Sure I could of faxed it but I'm funny like that. When I got to her office we did a little small talk. As I was leaving she told me that the next time I was in the area that she went to lunch at 11:30 and that we needed to do lunch together. Now, I'm not looking for sex or some other type of relationship. But I enjoy the company of ALL females and she is just so easy to talk to and we make each other laugh. Is it wrong to take her to lunch under the assumption that it is only as friends or even "coworkers". I go to lunch with women all the time and don't think of it as anything other than eating luch with friends. I am a little attracted to her but in a she makes me feel good and I would love for her to be a good friend type of way. Honestly, I'm not looking for anything else. Thoughts, ideas and responses...... __________________ ...because there are no facts, there is no truth, just data to be manipulated. I can get you any results you like, what's it worth to you.....