Latch, when I was younger (read 19) I had a similar problem. I'd love and worship the girl, but wouldn't feel like having sex with her: the standard song about how she's more than just a body you lust after, and that love is more spritual than physical. However, I found (of course, this is personal) that after some "practice" my physical feelings towards her changed. After a few months of having sex it started to feel natural to want her physically as well as spiritually. Maybe you just need to persevere a bit more. Don't *think* about it: love is not rational. Just let it happen.
I can tell you, that the best sex I've had is with girls I've been in love with.
Good luck
__________________
I want no escape.
|