Am I only attractive in the short term?
I am beginning to think that I am only attractive on the night I go out with a girl (with some exceptions) and maybe for a day or two after that.
I have two situations that lead me to believe this.
1. I went out on a date with a girl and despite my occasional foot-in-mouth comment I believed that it went rather well. She told me to call her the next day and I did. She then said (when she called me back) that she had gone home early and that I shoudl call her the next day. I have not heard back from her since (and I did call and email her).
2. Two weeks ago I met this girl at a party and we talked all night. I ended up going home with her and in the morning we shared Tea and I got her phone number. I called her, left a message and she even called me back. She told me that she would call me in the next week to get together. Well not hearing from her in a week I called and I have not heard from her since. It may be a bit early to call this lead dead but I am still fustrated.
So my wit, charm, and looks only seem to be good for a night or two. I would blame it on alchol and the girls having beer goggles but the first night we started out stone sober. I dont' know what to ask or anything, this is just more of a rant. I am not completely fustrated because I have struck out with every single one, and even got a number via PM the other day (*pumps fist*) lol. This is just becoming a theme. Women like me till they think better of it.
/end rant.
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