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Funny you should ask...
Sometimes anything you attempt is destined to fail, but probably the most dependable for me have been genuine sincerity, and humor when emailing. Not slick, not bad boy, not brainiac...just a guy that makes it enjoyable to read what he writes.
Anitra and I met on line over two years ago, and I really think it was that combination that at least got my foot in the door with her. By the same token you have to know what you expect, whether it's short or long term, you need some expectations just as she does. Oh yeah, and after we met for the first time she revealed that it was my shoes that won her over! Regardless of all that, we were both at a point in our lives that we needed, and wanted commitment...but first you have to get the door opened a bit, and thats what you are talking about trying to do.
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