I'm not a psychologist, nor do I play one on tv... however... I guess a lot.
I think the technical term is Madonna/Whore complex -
that the women you fall in love with you want to see in a certain way - kind of pure and chaste (as in madonna - the virgin mary - -not the bizarro singer) - and you don't want to see these women as sexual beings -or that they'd even have sex -- because that'd make them -- well - not nice girls... and you are supposed to love nice girls.
Nice girls do have sex, and actually like it -
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