This is by far one of the best threads I've ever come across on a forum. Here's my shot:
First off, I was recently dumped by my girlfriend for 2.5 great years. Being "too nice" has been a problem in past relationships, and I was recently told by a good girlfriend of ours that Katie (my ex) said she'd like to try a rougher guy for a change. What a kick in the nuts. The thought of your girlfriend welcoming some sleaze to grab her ass.
However, I think it comes down to time. Within my dating age group (~18-25) most girls still seem to be tasting different flavors, trying to decide what they prefer. Now I was rough as rocks in bed, but did tend to treat her like a princess in everyday life. What a mistake. However if I were to now try to get her back by being a little rougher, I would be the fake one and feel like even more of a jerk if she decided that she liked the "nice Tim" more. If she truly does like rough guys, shes a little insecure and needs a bouncer like boyfriend to be wherever she goes. If she's just confused but he made her think rougher guys would be better, then maybe he's just a little too boring for her lifestlye. If she likes nice guys but he was "too too nice", he's probably never had sex before and totally smothered her. Either way, being nice is a gift man. Yeah, nice guys might finish last, but at least they don't finish in jail with Bubba
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Originally posted by fhqwhgads
I'd have to agree..."too nice" is just an excuse. Next time someone tells you that you're too nice, drop a deuce on the hood of their car and ask how they feel about you now.
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Lol, trust me I've considered this
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Originally posted by Jesus Pimp
What a stupid bitch. You should of fucked her in the ass when you had the chance . You need to find a girl who will appreciate your niceness.
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First time I've actually laughed out loud at my computer in a while. I'll try this next time
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Originally posted by *Nikki*
Your to nice=I am not attracted to you.Plain and simple.
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Yeah, maybe from one girls preference. Definitely true up front, but I'd attempt to keep the girl within reach just incase she did realize she likes you
If not, shes chosing to be a bunny and longs to be devoured by some drooling wolf