NotMinus

I wouldn't do it Nemo. (re-read that you are not married and reffering to a SO, but my veiwpoint still stands if you are commited) You are the master of yourself and if you are married and this has come up; can't you simply prove to your wife that you can control your urges for her sake. She can tell you that it is a possibility but if she does not want to know about it, it must hurt her emotionly. Wouldn't it be dissrespectfull to her and your marriage to involve yourself in actions that hurt her.

When I am married it will be for life. I have no intentions of divorce or infidelity but I would make it perfectly clear that if my wife couldn't honour our marriage to the same standard their would be no forgiveness, I would leave her immediatly, even if we had kids. It is a hard position to take and I imagine it would be far more complicated if the situation arose but I feel strongly about it.