Ratbastid, here's the rub. She is making the concession (hypothetically) out of her inability to perform. This is not something she is happy with, but she knows how much tension is being created by it.
Would she be happy if I were to say "I would never want anyone but you, so I will wait", of course, but this is something that is going to require waiting a loooong time (we're talking Mayo clinic time lengths here). And no, this is not something that I am actively looking at pursuing at this point (ok, so it wasn't really a hypothetical question), it just came up the other day and the logic behind telling someone it is all right, but not wanting to know about it has me addled.
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