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I'm late to the game, but my comment is this:
All this guy seems to need is a wife-beater t-shirt and a mullet, and I think we've got Springer material. If I understand correctly:
For a period of time, you were getting a lot of attention from this guy. You give ultimatem - he pulls back. He doesn't like the challenge to his authority in your arrangement. You accept the 1%.
Hmmm...my advice is
1. Drop this guy flat. Don't have fun with him for three weeks. Don't see him during the three weeks. If you have to see him, meet on neutral ground and don't have sex with him. Let yourself pity him, and let him see that you pity him. I personally don't see how you're not supremely pissed at this guy. You're (self-described as) attractive, intelligent, and you've been in relationships before - so you know the way these things work. Don't let this guy waste any more of your time. You can find someone better who'll give you the time / etc you need.
2. Never let yourself fall in love with someone involved in a relationship. You can play frisky games with them, but don't go to Love Land. The various alternatives are never as good as a relationship formed from a fresh start.
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