Here's your new mantra, my friend:
Don't Think.
Say that 1000 times between now and when you next see her.
Thinking just gets you into trouble. When she was snuggled up against you playing with your buttons, I'll bet your brain was going a million miles an hour, no? And if it had been all quiet in there, what do you think you could have done?
Don't think.
Also, don't use tricks. The yawn-stretch-arm-around-her trick is pathetic. Just put your arm around her. You want to, don't you? Then do it! Same with kissing her. You want to? Then do!
Stop telling yourself about everything that's wrong with you and that she could never be interested in you. This is a little like telling somebody to stop blinking their eyes--you can do it for a while, but given enough time, it's a losing game. Still, try it.
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