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I may sound sexist here, but I think it comes down to the fact that it takes more stimulation for a woman to reach orgasm, thus the "need for toys." When a man uses a toy, a woman may feel as if she is not pleasing him or to him.
(However, if introduced in the right way, and used for both people's pleasure, she may soon let go of that idea!)
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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