I'm not sure whether to be offended or laugh my ass off
A wife/husband, to me, is someone who is there to support you in life and who is a partner in your fulfillment. It has nothing to do with cleaning or even helping out with the chores, unless that is contributing to your fulfillment. I clean our house because I like to live in a clean house, not because ratbastid wants me to. Frankly, most times he couldn't care less. If he asks me to do something specific, I do it because it's important to him. I clean D's house for her sometimes when she needs it because it supports her doing other things that fulfill her.
If a wife is just a maid you don't have to pay, you've got trouble!!!