I found out because he told me... he told me basically because we were getting close physically, but he backed off and was very uncomfortable. I didn't push it obviously because if someone's uncomfortable then it isn't going to work at the time... He felt horrible because he thought he offended me without an explanation, so he asked me to meet up with him to talk. He then told me that this is the reason why, and he didn't mean to scare me off or whatever.
I still don't know him well enough to strongly suggest him seeking help at all. He's actually come a long way thus far, at least from my understanding. Therefor giving a card is a nice idea, but won't work in these circumstances. I'm just not going to push, because if and when he wants to talk, he will.
