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A good marriage SHOULDN'T be that way. Too many people think their partner will change AFTER marriage. It's totally wrong. If anything the things that bug you now will drive you insane later.
Hubby and I haven't had a perfect marriage but we've grown and learned a lot about how to make it work. We've passed a number of BIG bumps and gotten better at it. We get along pretty well for now. If we get upset at each other it usually doesn't last too long and we're usually not fuming mad - mostly just irritated.
It sounds like this girl is exceptionally irresponsible and it will grate on you seriously. I would stear clear of that.
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My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
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