I'm an truly sorry to hear about your loss. I am glad to see you're coping with it on the surface. But your wife may not be able to get past the fact that you seem to be a rock. Maybe she thinks, that you think all of these things about her because you haven't broken down in front of her with your feelings about it. Try talking to her about how you feel about her, the tragedy, and how you know it was not her fault, and that you will always love her and the little one who passed. Talk about the joy he brought into both of your lives. He will always be with you if you think of the joys! I do hope the two of you can get past this. I wish only the best for you and the rest of your family.
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If ignorance is bliss, then wipe this smile off my face!
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