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i don't want to make a lot of assumptions, but it almost seems like she's acting this way because she's not really sure how to deal with the fact that you're having sex. obviously she's not pissed about it, which is good... but it seems like she's having a hard time accepting it and thinking of it as a normal thing.
sure, you're old enough to do things like that on your own... but sometimes it's hard for parents to grasp that concept and let their children grow up.
try to see things from her point of view... really put yourself in her position and imagine how you'd feel. now think of your mother and what kind of person she is... why is she acting this way? does she typically make jokes about things that freak her out or make her uneasy? my guess is that's probably true...
what you need to do is try to get her to see that this is not a big deal. the more you react to her teasings, the more she's going to do it. just act like it doesn't bother you and ask her, "so, what if i am going to go have sex? what's the big deal?" just put her on the spot... most likely she'll back down and won't tease you again.
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