That's a good question, Spidey. I haven't ever known anyone who has done that. I suppose maybe subconsciously women do it, but usually once they think they've found the guy for them they don't let him get away!
IF she was doing this subconsciously, keeping you around like this, then if you were to appear serious about another woman then that should make her see that it's now or never with you. Have you ever been with anyone seriously since she's been playing this game with you? I know it sounds immature, but so is what she's doing. Maybe you should act interested in someone else, completely don't respond to your friend at all, and see what she does?
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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
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