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Originally posted by Hurricane1
We have all been there. The best advice my mother gave me years ago, before I got married was.... ACT like you are totally in love with that person, even if you aren't at the time.
It may sound strange, but when I put forth that effort and act as if I am IN love with my SO, I am surprised at just how much love I get in return.
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i don't understand this advice. i think it's a stupid idea. why would you fake something? i don't think that's natural at all. acting in love with someone doesn't necessarily get you a ticket to 'love' in return. i put forth a LOT of efforts in my past relationships with little in return and i cared a lot. which i think shows love, or desperation :P