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Hey, you know what Sawfmonkey, its your life, its his life. You make the decisions for yours, he can make the decisions for his. You made a simple offer, its up to him to determine if he'll take you up on the offer. I really don't see what these people have against you. You couldn't break up the relationship, it would be him making the decision that might break up the relationship.
It amazes me that people think that, for instance, I can *make* you do anything. Short of having a gun to someone's head, all the decisions are made by the person.
You may end up confirming some things for him and his girlfriend. maybe a catalyst for the inevitable. If he's willing to take you up on the offer, he was going to down the road anyway.
People who go psycho on others usually end up with restraining orders and other troubles with the law.
Maybe I'm oversimplifying it, but this is how I really feel about this type of stuff.
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