It happens...but why?
You're in a comfortable setting, surrounded by a medium sized group, and you're able to simply be yourself and not have a single worry in the world. Then there are always 1 or 2 people, who show up, and you lose your coolness and basically climb into a shell. What is that all about?
Sometimes these people don't even have to say a word, just their presence magically transforms your behavior. In my case, some of these people I really don't like, and some have been nothing but nice to me. I haven't been able to figure this out. Do you ever notice that people around you have an influence on your behavior, no matter how hard you try not to let it reach that level?
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